Following Jesus was never meant to be something we do alone.

Reflecting Monthly is a simple way to make space for honest conversation, prayer, encouragement, and growth with two or three trusted people.

Reflect Monthly is a simple rhythm of meeting once a month with two or three trusted people to pause, talk honestly, pray, and encourage one another.

The conversation is shaped around three areas:

UP: How is my life with God?

IN: What is happening within me?

OUT: How is my life affecting others?

You can choose your own reflection partners. This might be friends, people from your small group, a prayer partner, or someone else from church. Look for people who will listen well, be honest, pray with you, and encourage you to grow.

Reflect monthly podcast:

UP QUESTIONS

Questions to reflect on our relationship with God

Am I retreating daily?

Am I letting the bible speak to me?

Am I growing in my understanding of the bible?

Am I hearing from God in prayer?

Am I telling God what’s on my heart in prayer?

Am I repenting of my sin?

Am I loving the Lord my God with all my heart, soul and strength?

Am I a passionate worshipper?

Am I allowing sermons at church to inspire me to grow and change?

Am I excluding God or being disobedient to him in an area of my life?

IN QUESTIONS

Questions to reflect on our own heart

Am I struggling to forgive anyone?

Am I gossiping?

Am I watching anything on the TV / internet that I wouldn’t want anyone else to know?

Am I looking after my body, thinking about what I wast and how I exercise?

Am I looking after my mental health?

Am I using my rest time in a way which is actually restful?

Am I wasting my time?

Am I going to bed and getting up at a good time?

Am I a helpful and faithful member of a community of faith?

Am I jealous, critical, irritable, touchy or distrustful?

OUT QUESTIONS

Questions to reflect on how we are impacting others

Am I loving my neighbour as I love myself?

Am I proud of the gospel?

Am I generous in what I give?

Am I generous towards others or stingy?

Am I serving in my local church community?

Am I trustworthy?

Am I sharing my faith with boldness?

Am I living a life which is a witness to Jesus and letting my light shine?

Am I a blessing to others?

Am I being obedient to the calling God has given to me?